Nice people are ok. Positive people are excellent, though. There is a huge difference between the two types and you are delusional if you think not. Negative people will have you think otherwise. This is what they do. Abusers and idiots love to confuse and smash the two (and wholesome) together to make the masses as fake and pathetic as possible.
Those who need this pretend nice person are weak. They are needy and immature. I’ve always put positivity above the facade of niceness. Just because someone minds their P’s and Q’s, doesn’t mean they aren’t a murderer, rapist, scammer, abuser, fraud, etc. Most of those disgusting excuses for human beings put on a fake nice personality in order to achieve their lifestyles.
A positive person makes mistakes but is always looking to improve the situation at hand. No need to always be thinking bigger picture. That’s impossible. There aren’t any perfectly forward moving people but there are some that aim in that direction. They try. That’s the key here. Effort. Nice people are following a script. Positive people are pushing a genuine lifestyle.
Everyone has the capability of being a positive person. Most (Americans) make the conscious choice to be a cunt. They take advantage of their unearned privilege and attack others as much and/or as strategically as they can. They don’t have to abide by the same laws as the working class, defaming and oppressing people all day without facing the legal consequences.
I’m an independent person and decide my political stances that way but many would say I tend to lean more liberal or democratic. If that’s the case, then democrats are more positive. And seeing as republicans or conservatives are well known in the U.S. for being regressive in this time in history, that makes sense.
They’re always trying to test me too, sneak in some idiotic nonsense. I can’t go out anywhere around here without someone saying something ridiculously abusive towards me and/or others. It’s taxing having to be on your toes at all times with these people, especially in the workplace, but you have to do the best you can to claim positivity.
Don’t get lost in who’s nice or mean or what oppressive pagan religion they adhere to. Seek out positive people who are putting in effort daily to achieve legitimate and (most likely) legal goals. Not everyone doing illegal shit is doing bad, but they should either be trying to get out of it or legalize whatever they’re doing, if they are an authentic person with non-destructive goals.
Never allow them to convince you, that you can’t go at shit negative people. They’ll put together all sorts of nonsequitors and scary fictional tales to keep themselves safe from scrutiny, while also trying to convince you to be a squishy marshmallow of a nice person. Complainers will come out of the woodwork, and attack you for attention seeking, but they’re just lost in their privilege.
It is easy to meet “Midwest Nice” people in Wisconsin but it is almost impossible to meet positive folks. In my experience, most people around here are either profoundly fascist or racist. They hide their true feelings behind fake personalities. Speak their mind in public? Oh no, that’s ick/cringe/embarrassing. Fake their life story and terrorize people in private? That’s “culture”.
Obviously most of them won’t read this. They’re too spineless, first of all. Second, they “disagree”. The movies tell them they need money and power, so that’s what their kind seeks by any means. Their demographic lives in a fantasy world that supports their ignorance. The world is their playground. The type to puke up gibberish like “you just gotta work hard and stop bitching”.
They of course will say that I’m twisting or bending the definitions of these words to fit my agenda. Or something like that. Inexperienced and out of touch, they come from every direction to attack a superior person. No original ideas of their own, with little vocabulary, they almost always revert to namecalling. We’d be much better off as an overall race with robots instead.
Negative people will victim blame a positive person from adversity to death, literally. They fake believe in their fake beliefs very strongly. Parroting that “it’s your fault” mentality like a huge flock or birds. They’re terrorists. Religious lack of knowledge and worth, trying to strike fear in good people. You have to be a resilient person to maintain through their attacks, guises, and ruses.
Uplift others. Grow. Put in effort towards your goals. Move with integrity. Accept reality. Fix things. Learn new facts every day. Love yourself for making quality decisions. You absolutely do not need to be a bigot or hater in order to find happiness or success. That is the standard that they set but you can still put in positive force and make a real difference in the world.
I’m working on myself daily. I’ve messed up and not been the best I could be at times. But I keep going. I adapt and adjust my thought process to reach the next level. I spread kindness on a daily basis but that’s not what is most significant to real people with purpose and value. More importantly, I fight to move the masses in a more positive direction, and I hope you will too.
